怎么跟孩子介绍中国

第1篇：怎么跟孩子介绍中国

怎么跟孩子谈规矩

怎么跟孩子做朋友，谈规矩

儿童时期是孩子成长的关键期，性格和习惯的形成都与这一时期的教育密不可分。这一时期的孩子每天都可能带给我们新的惊喜，但也每天都可能带给我们新的教育难题。

“没有规矩，不成方圆”，只有让孩子从小懂得规矩，长大后才能更好地适应社会发展，才能更好地与人相处。

一、 学会跟孩子做朋友

通常在家里，我们面对孩子时，会在孩子面前刻意的树立长辈的权威，与孩子之间产生一种上级对下级的距离，很多时候我是真正把孩子当作朋友，并且不是刻意强制要求孩子无条件服从，而是以朋友的方式进行沟通和交流。有时候家里老人会认为孩子什么都不懂，但是我并不这样认为，生活中我发现你给孩子树立什么榜样，她们就会学什么样子。孩子也不是听不懂道理，而是我们没有完全耐心的去站在孩子的角度给她们讲道理;当她们受到太多自身的局限时，孩子会耍赖，不听话，周雨璇有一段时间就经常说：“妈妈，你这也不叫动，那也不叫动，烦不烦人啊!”我就觉得孩子说这话背后一定有其动机与原因，因此不可以只是一味地责骂孩子不守“规矩”的行为。

有些时候我们家长在孩子不听话时都会说：“你看看别的小朋友怎样怎样的，多听话，表现很好”，这时候你会发现小朋友先是看看你说的那个小朋友，然后才是安静下来去模仿，变得听话，这就说明小朋友的榜样作用很重要。很多孩子都喜欢听朋友的话，却不喜欢听家长的话。孩子之所以喜欢听小朋友的话，那是小朋友能够尊重孩子的想法，双方的地位都是平等的，交往过程中有一种契约精神。也就是说，站在孩子的角度就是：要是你不尊重我的话，我可以选择不和你做朋友。孩子和小朋友交往中体现了一种自由精神，但是家长却给孩子一种专制。孩子在小朋友那里，个人意志得到体现，但是在家长那里却是服从，所以我们要学会跟孩子做朋友，学会和孩子做朋友，成为孩子学习模仿的榜样，这也是一种交际能力。对于家长来说，关键是心态要摆正，必须要有耐心，毕竟孩子的反应是比大人慢的。如果处处都是高高在上，那么就很难和孩子做朋友，如果我们家长能够和孩子成为真正朋友，那么很多问题就可以解决了!

二、 学会跟孩子谈规矩

很多情况下，父母希望自己做的每一件事都能让孩子高兴，但是作为父母必须清楚，作为家长，我们的态度和标准将影响到你的孩子能否成为一个明辨是非的人，所以，你必须做一些孩子不愿意接受的决定。有时候孩子会为了某件事情不满足而哭闹，甚至哭闹不止，满地打滚，不达目的不罢休。但是，作为妈妈有没有想过，只要孩子一哭闹，你就把她想要的东西给她，或者做些什么事情去哄她的话，这无异于鼓励了她坏行为。我经常对周雨璇说：“你不要用哭闹来跟我谈条件，我是不会答应你的。”所以，最好的策略就是静静等待她平静，对她这种纠缠说“不”，然后跟她讲道理，讲方法。就又回到前面说的，一定要耐心的用朋友心态跟他们交流。

1、家长所订的规矩，必须要配合孩子的能力和发展阶段，切忌要求过多及过高。制定规矩时，必须同时与孩子制定违规后相应要承担的后果，例如：以哭要挟家长买玩具的后果，就要立刻取消她感兴趣的一件事情，比如取消带她外出去游乐场活动的权利。

2、所订的规矩，必须简洁及明确，让孩子清楚知道什么可以做、什么不可以做，例如告诉孩子：“发脾气时可以打枕头，但不可以打人(包括父母)及摔东西。”

3、给予孩子选择的机会：让孩子学习自主，所以家长应给予孩子选择的机会，以便孩子明白及信服规范。孩子的选择范围要看孩子的能力而定：我们家周雨璇看iPad，我控制她看ipad时间的方法是，给她前先讲好：“你选择是长针走到5字时要收起来，吃饭，你同意吗?”她会跟你商量：“看到6吧?”“可以”。时间久了，这就是规矩。

总之，讲得出，做得到：规矩订定后，家长无论在什么情况下，都必须立场坚定，切实执行。讲得出，做得到：如果家长自知不能紧守原则的话，或是不能实行的，就不要订了，不跟孩子许愿，打空头支票，承诺了就要做到，也要知道不要哄骗，轻易承诺，否则就变得没有诚信了。

制定的规矩必须双方都遵守，如果你不遵守规矩，孩子也不会遵守规矩，不要以为自己的理由有多么高明，孩子学的也很快，她会找出同样的理由来对付你。

最后给大家推荐本书——《如何给孩子定规矩，孩子才会听》，借用书中的一句话：没有不听话的孩子，只有不会说话的父母! 没有不愿意说话的孩子，只有不会听话的父母! 没有不守规矩的孩子，只有不会定规矩的父母! 没有教不好的孩子，只有不懂方法和技巧的父母!

希望跟各位家长共同交流学习!

小四班周雨璇妈妈 2015年3月6日

第2篇：怎么跟孩子谈责任(奥巴马)

怎么跟孩子谈责任：从奥巴马演讲谈起

这是奥巴马在开学之际面向全国学生的讲话。这个演讲的一个主题是责任。

观点1：认真学习是对自己负责任。

人各有所长，把这个长处、天赋发挥出来，是对自己负责任的体现。 但怎么才能把自己的长处和天赋发挥出来呢?接受教育，认真学习是一个重要途径。 奥巴马演讲原文：

“你们中的每一个人都会有自己擅长的东西，每一个人都是有用之材，而发现自己的才能是什么，就是你们要对自己担起的责任。教育给你们提供了发现自己才能的机会。

或许你能写出优美的文字——甚至有一天能让那些文字出现在书籍和报刊上——但假如不在英语课上经常练习写作，你不会发现自己有这样的天赋;或许你能成为一个发明家、创造家——甚至设计出像今天的iPhone一样流行的产品，或研制出新的药物与疫苗——但假如不在自然科学课程上做上几次实验，你不会知道自己有这样的天赋;或许你能成为一名议员或最高法院法官，但假如你不去加入什么学生会或参加几次辩论赛，你也不会发现自己的才能。 而且，我可以向你保证，不管你将来想要做什么，你都需要相应的教育。——你想当名医生、当名教师或当名警官?你想成为护士、成为建筑设计师、律师或军人?无论你选择哪一种职业，良好的教育都必不可少，这世上不存在不把书念完就能拿到好工作的美梦，任何工作，都需要你的汗水、训练与学习。” 观点2：认真学习是对国家负责任。

学习不仅仅是独善其身的需要，也有兼济天下的意义。

有的学生谈起外国的侵略咬牙切齿，彰显自己如何如何爱国，但在学习上一点儿都不努力。

这样，国家一旦需要你的时候，你能为国家做些什么呢?

由于社会上假大空的爱国太多。所以很多家长自觉抵制这种假大空， 不再跟孩子谈爱国，谈社会责任。这是走向了另一个极端。 所以当有人问“1000万美元该怎么花”的时候，

许多人要么张口结舌，不知所措;要么仅仅从个人角度去考虑这个问题。

一个人的境界与格局要从小打好底子，家庭教育需要在这方面有所作为。

奥巴马演讲原文： “不仅仅对于你们个人的未来有重要意义，你们的教育如何也会对这个国家、乃至世界的未来产生重要影响。今天你们在学校中学习的内容，将会决定我们整个国家在未来迎接重大挑战时的表现。 你们需要在数理科学课程上学习的知识和技能，去治疗癌症、艾滋那样的疾病，和解决我们面临的能源问题与环境问题;你们需要在历史社科课程上培养出的观察力与判断力，来减轻和消除无家可归与贫困、犯罪问题和各种歧视，让这个国家变得更加公平和自由;你们需要在各类课程中逐渐累积和发展出来的创新意识和思维，去创业和建立新的公司与企业，来制造就业机会和推动经济的增长。

我们需要你们中的每一个人都培养和发展自己的天赋、技能和才智，来解决我们所面对的最困难的问题。假如你不这么做——假如你放弃学习——那么你不仅是放弃了自己，也是放弃了你的国家。” [萧愚] 经常听到这样的说法：我先把自己搞好了，然后有余力就给社会一些。

这种说法感觉回馈社会是一种施舍，是自己觉悟高。 看奥巴马演讲，你会发现美国人的逻辑不是这样。 他们的观点是，回馈社会是一种责任。

什么是责任?就是你必须要做的事情，必须要尽的义务。 其实仔细想想也是，我们吃的穿的用的哪一样不是从社会中得来? 国家不是一个抽象的东西，你的生活离开国家会一团糟。 既然是责任，怎么才能尽到责任?

按照奥巴马的逻辑，前提是把自己的潜能发挥出来，好好接受教育，让自己更有能力。

按这个逻辑，爱因斯坦如果不好好钻研学问，跑到乡下当农夫那就是没有尽到社会责任。

从小培养孩子的责任感很重要。这个逻辑我觉得听起来比较顺畅， 不是盲目拔高喊口号，也比较切合学生的实际。大家不妨给孩子讲一讲。

奥巴马在韦克菲尔德高中开学时的演讲稿

[弗吉尼亚州，阿林顿市，2009年9月8日]

嗨，大家好!你们今天过得怎么样?我现在和弗吉尼亚州阿林顿郡韦克菲尔德高中的学生们在一起，全国各地也有从幼儿园到高三的众多学生们通过电视关注这里，我很高兴你们能共同分享这一时刻。

我知道，对你们中的许多人来说，今天是开学的第一天，你们中的有一些刚刚进入幼儿园或升上初高中，对你们来说，这是在新学校的第一天，因此，假如你们感到有些紧张，那也是很正常的。我想也会有许多毕业班的学生们正自信满满地准备最后一年的冲刺。不过，我想无论你有多大、在读哪个年级，许多人都打心底里希望现在还在放暑假，以及今天不用那么早起床。

我可以理解这份心情。小时候，我们家在印度尼西亚住过几年，而我妈妈没钱送我去其他美国孩子们上学的地方去读书，因此她决定自己给我上课——时间是每周一到周五的凌晨4点半。

显然，我不怎么喜欢那么早就爬起来，很多时候，我就这么在厨房的桌子前睡着了。每当我埋怨的时候，我妈总会用同一副表情看着我说：“小鬼，你以为教你我就很轻松?”

所以，我可以理解你们中的许多人对于开学还需要时间来调整和适应，但今天我站在这里，是为了和你们谈一些重要的事情。我要和你们谈一谈你们每个人的教育，以及在新的学年里，你们应当做些什么。

我做过许多关于教育的讲话，也常常用到“责任”这个词。

我谈到过教师们有责任激励和启迪你们，督促你们学习。

我谈到过家长们有责任看管你们认真学习、完成作业，不要成天只会看电视或打游戏机。

我也很多次谈到过政府有责任设定高标准严要求、协助老师和校长们的工作，改变在有些学校里学生得不到应有的学习机会的现状。

但哪怕这一切都达到最好，哪怕我们有最尽职的教师、最好的家长、和最优秀的学校，假如你们不去履行自己的责任的话，那么这一切努力都会白费。——除非你每天准时去上学、除非你认真地听老师讲课、除非你把父母、长辈和其他大人们说的话放在心上、除非你肯付出成功所必需的努力，否则这一切都会失去意义。

而这就是我今天讲话的主题：对于自己的教育，你们中每一个人的责任。首先，我想谈谈你们对于自己有什么责任。

你们中的每一个人都会有自己擅长的东西，每一个人都是有用之材，而发现自己的才能是什么，就是你们要对自己担起的责任。教育给你们提供了发现自己才能的机会。

或许你能写出优美的文字——甚至有一天能让那些文字出现在书籍和报刊上——但假如不在英语课上经常练习写作，你不会发现自己有这样的天赋;或许你能成为一个发明家、创造家——甚至设计出像今天的iPhone一样流行的产品，或研制出新的药物与疫苗——但假如不在自然科学课程上做上几次实验，你不会知道自己有这样的天赋;或许你能成为一名议员或最高法院法官，但假如你不去加入什么学生会或参加几次辩论赛，你也不会发现自己的才能。

而且，我可以向你保证，不管你将来想要做什么，你都需要相应的教育。——你想当名医生、当名教师或当名警官?你想成为护士、成为建筑设计师、律师或军人?无论你选择哪一种职业，良好的教育都必不可少，这世上不存在不把书念完就能拿到好工作的美梦，任何工作，都需要你的汗水、训练与学习。

不仅仅对于你们个人的未来有重要意义，你们的教育如何也会对这个国家、乃至世界的未来产生重要影响。今天你们在学校中学习的内容，将会决定我们整个国家在未来迎接重大挑战时的表现。

你们需要在数理科学课程上学习的知识和技能，去治疗癌症、艾滋那样的疾病，和解决我们面临的能源问题与环境问题;你们需要在历史社科课程上培养出的观察力与判断力，来减轻和消除无家可归与贫困、犯罪问题和各种歧视，让这个国家变得更加公平和自由;你们需要在各类课程中逐渐累积和发展出来的创新意识和思维，去创业和建立新的公司与企业，来制造就业机会和推动经济的增长。

我们需要你们中的每一个人都培养和发展自己的天赋、技能和才智，来解决我们所面对的最困难的问题。假如你不这么做——假如你放弃学习——那么你不仅是放弃了自己，也是放弃了你的国家。

当然，我明白，读好书并不总是件容易的事。我知道你们中的许多人在生活中面临着各种各样的问题，很难把精力集中在专心读书之上。

我知道你们的感受。我父亲在我两岁时就离开了家庭，是母亲一人将我们拉扯大，有时她付不起帐单，有时我们得不到其他孩子们都有的东西，有时我会想，假如父亲在该多好，有时我会感到孤独无助，与周围的环境格格不入。

因此我并不总是能专心学习，我做过许多自己觉得丢脸的事情，也惹出过许多不该惹的麻烦，我的生活岌岌可危，随时可能急转直下。

但我很幸运。我在许多事上都得到了重来的机会，我得到了去大学读法学院、实现自己梦想的机会。我的妻子——现在得叫她第一夫人米歇尔•奥巴马了——也有着相似的人生故事，她的父母都没读过大学，也没有什么财产，但他们和她都辛勤工作，好让她有机会去这个国家最优秀的学校读书。

你们中有些人可能没有这些有利条件，或许你的生活中没有能为你提供帮助和支持的长辈，或许你的某个家长没有工作、经济拮据，或许你住的社区不那么安全，或许你认识一些会对你产生不良影响的朋友，等等。

但归根结底，你的生活状况——你的长相、出身、经济条件、家庭氛围——都不是疏忽学业和态度恶劣的借口，这些不是你去跟老师顶嘴、逃课、或是辍学的借口，这些不是你不好好读书的借口。

你的未来，并不取决于你现在的生活有多好或多坏。没有人为你编排好你的命运，在美国，你的命运由你自己书写，你的未来由你自己掌握。

而在这片土地上的每个地方，千千万万和你一样的年轻人正是这样在书写着自己的命运。

例如德克萨斯州罗马市的贾斯敏•佩雷兹(Jazmin Perez)。刚进学校时，她根本不会说英语，她住的地方几乎没人上过大学，她的父母也没有受过高等教育，但她努力学习，取得了优异的成绩，靠奖学金进入了布朗大学，如今正在攻读公共卫生专业的博士学位。

我还想起了加利福尼亚州洛斯拉图斯市的安多尼•舒尔兹(Andoni Schultz)，他从三岁起就开始与脑癌病魔做斗争，他熬过了一次次治疗与手术——其中一次影响了他的记忆，因此他得花出比常人多几百个小时的时间来完成学业，但他从不曾落下自己的功课。这个秋天，他要开始在大学读书了。

又比如在我的家乡，伊利诺斯州芝加哥市，身为孤儿的香特尔•史蒂夫(Shantell Steve)换过多次收养家庭，从小在治安很差的地区长大，但她努力争取到了在当地保健站工作的机会、发起了一个让青少年远离犯罪团伙的项目，很快，她也将以优异的成绩从中学毕业，去大学深造。

贾斯敏、安多尼和香特尔与你们并没有什么不同。和你们一样，他们也在生活中遭遇各种各样的困难与问题，但他们拒绝放弃，他们选择为自己的教育担起责任、给自己定下奋斗的目标。我希望你们中的每一个人，都能做得到这些。

因此，在今天，我号召你们每一个人都为自己的教育定下一个目标——并在之后，尽自己的一切努力去实现它。你的目标可以很简单，像是完成作业、认真听讲或每天阅读——或许你打算参加一些课外活动，或在社区做些志愿工作;或许你决定为那些因为长相或出身等等原因而受嘲弄或欺负的孩子做主、维护他们的权益，因为你和我一样，认为每个孩子都应该能有一个安全的学习环境;或许你认为该学着更好的照顾自己，来为将来的学习做准备„„当然，除此之外，我希望你们都多多洗手、感到身体不舒服的时候要多在家休息，免得大家在秋冬感冒高发季节都得流感。

不管你决定做什么，我都希望你能坚持到底，希望你能真的下定决心。

我知道有些时候，电视上播放的节目会让你产生这样那样的错觉，似乎你不需要付出多大的努力就能腰缠万贯、功成名就——你会认为只要会唱rap、会打篮球或参加个什么真人秀节目就能坐享其成，但现实是，你几乎没有可能走上其中任何一条道路。

因为，成功是件难事。你不可能对要读的每门课程都兴趣盎然，你不可能和每名带课教师都相处顺利，你也不可能每次都遇上看起来和现实生活有关的作业。而且，并不是每件事，你都能在头一次尝试时获得成功。

但那没有关系。因为在这个世界上，最最成功的人们往往也经历过最多的失败。J.K.罗琳的第一本《哈利•波特》被出版商拒绝了十二次才最终出版;迈克尔•乔丹上高中时被学校的篮球队刷了下来，在他的职业生涯里，他输了几百场比赛、投失过几千次射篮，知道他是怎么说的吗?“我一生不停地失败、失败再失败，这就是我现在成功的原因。”

他们的成功，源于他们明白人不能让失败左右自己——而是要从中吸取经验。从失败中，你可以明白下一次自己可以做出怎样的改变;假如你惹了什么麻烦，那并不说明你就是个捣蛋鬼，而是在提醒你，在将来要对自己有更严格的要求;假如你考了个低分，那并不说明你就比别人笨，而是在告诉你，自己得在学习上花更多的时间。

没有哪一个人一生出来就擅长做什么事情的，只有努力才能培养出技能。任何人都不是在第一次接触一项体育运动时就成为校队的代表，任何人都不是在第一次唱一首歌时就找准每一个音，一切都需要熟能生巧。对于学业也是一样，你或许要反复运算才能解出一道数学题的正确答案，你或许需要读一段文字好几遍才能理解它的意思，你或许得把论文改上好几次才能符合提交的标准。这都是很正常的。

不要害怕提问。不要不敢向他人求助。——我每天都在这么做。求助并不是软弱的表现，恰恰相反，它说明你有勇气承认自己的不足、并愿意去学习新的知识。所以，有不懂时，就向大人们求助吧——找个你信得过的对象，例如父母、长辈、老师、教练或辅导员——让他们帮助你向目标前进。

你要记住，哪怕你表现不好、哪怕你失去信心、哪怕你觉得身边的人都已经放弃了你——永远不要自己放弃自己。因为当你放弃自己的时候，你也放弃了自己的国家。

美国不是一个人们遭遇困难就轻易放弃的国度，在这个国家，人们坚持到底、人们加倍努力，为了他们所热爱的国度，每一个人都尽着自己最大的努力，不会给自己留任何余地。

250年前，有一群和你们一样的学生，他们之后奋起努力、用一场革命最终造就了这个国家;75年前，有一群和你们一样的学生，他们之后战胜了大萧条、赢得了二战;就在20年前，和你们一样的学生们，他们后来创立了Google、Twitter和Facebook，改变了我们人与人之间沟通的方式。

因此，今天我想要问你们，你们会做出什么样的贡献?你们将解决什么样的难题?你们能发现什么样的事物?二

十、五十或百年之后，假如那时的美国总统也来做一次开学演讲的话，他会怎样描述你们对这个国家所做的一切? 你们的家长、你们的老师和我，每一个人都在尽最大的努力，确保你们都能得到应有的教育来回答这些问题。例如我正在努力为你们提供更安全的教室、更多的书籍、更先进的设施与计算机。但你们也要担起自己的责任。因此我要求你们在今年能够认真起来，我要求你们尽心地去做自己着手的每一件事，我要求你们每一个人都有所成就。请不要让我们失望——不要让你的家人、你的国家和你自己失望。你们要成为我们骄傲，我知道，你们一定可以做到。

谢谢大家，上帝保佑你们，上帝保佑美国。 The White House Office of the Press Secretary For Immediate Release September 14, 2010 Remarks by the President in Back to School Speech in Philadelphia, PennsylvaniaJulia R. Masterman Laboratory and Demonstration School, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania1:05 P.M. EDT THE PRESIDENT:

Thank you! Hello! (Applause.) Thank you. Thank you. Well, hello, Philadelphia! (Applause.) And hello, Masterman. It is wonderful to see all of you. What a terrific introduction by Kelly. Give Kelly a big round of applause. (Applause.) I was saying backstage that when I was in high school, I could not have done that. (Laughter.) I would have muffed it up somehow. So we are so proud of you and everything that you’ve done. And to all the students here, I’m thrilled to be here.

We’ve got a couple introductions I want to make. First of all, you’ve got the outstanding governor of Pennsylvania, Ed Rendell, in the house. (Applause.) The mayor of Philadelphia, Michael Nutter, is here. here. here. (Applause.) (Applause.) (Applause.)

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principal, Marge here. (Applause.) The school superintendent, Arlene Ackerman, is here and doing a great job. (Applause.) And the Secretary of Education, Arne Duncan, is here. (Applause.)

And I am here. (Applause.) And I am thrilled to be here. I am just so excited. I’ve heard such great things about what all of you are doing, both the students and the teachers and the staff here. Today is about welcoming all of you, and all of America’s students, back to school, even though I know you’ve been in school for a little bit now. And I can’t think of a better place to do it than at Masterman. (Applause.) Because you are one of the best schools in Philadelphia. You are a leader in helping students succeed in the classroom. Just last week, you were recognized by a National Blue Ribbon -- as a National Blue Ribbon School because of your record of achievement. And that is a testament to everybody here –- to the students, to the parents, to the teachers, to the school leaders. It’s an example of excellence that I hope communities across America can embrace. Over the past few weeks, Michelle and I have been getting Sasha and Malia ready for school. And they’re excited about it. I’ll bet they had the same feelings that you do -- you’re a little sad to see the summer go, but you’re also excited about the possibilities of a new year. The possibilities of building new friendships and strengthening old ones, of joining a school club, or trying out for a team. The possibilities of growing into a better student and a better person and making not just your family proud but making yourself proud. But I know some of you may also be a little nervous about starting a new school year. Maybe you’re making the jump from elementary to middle school, or from middle school to high school, and you’re worried about what that’s going to be like. Maybe you’re starting a new school. You’re not sure how you’ll like it, trying to figure out how you’re going to fit in. Or maybe you’re a senior, and you’re anxious about the whole college process; about where to apply and whether you can afford to go to college. And beyond all those concerns, I know a lot of you are also feeling the strain of some difficult times. You know what’s going on in the news and you also know what’s going on in some of your own families. You’ve read about the war in Afghanistan. You hear about the recession that we’ve been through. And sometimes maybe you’re seeing the worries in your parents’ faces or sense it in their voice. So a lot of you as a consequence, because we’re going through a tough time a country, are having to act a lot older than you are. You got to be strong for your family while your brother or sister is serving overseas, or you’ve got to look after younger siblings while your mom is working that second shift. Or maybe some of you who are little bit older, you’re taking on a part-time job while your dad’s out of work.

And that’s a lot to handle. It’s more than you should have to handle. And it may make you wonder at times what your own future will look like, whether you’re going to be able to succeed in school, whether you should maybe set your sights a little lower, scale back your dreams. But I came to Masterman to tell all of you what I think you’re hearing from your principal and your superintendent, and from your parents and your teachers: Nobody gets to write your destiny but you. Your future is in your hands. Your life is what you make of it. And nothing -- absolutely nothing -- is beyond your reach, so long as you’re willing to dream big, so long as you’re willing to work hard. So long as you’re willing to stay focused on your education, there is not a single thing that any of you cannot accomplish, not a single thing. I believe that. And that last part is absolutely essential, that part about really working hard in school, because an education has never been more important than it is today. I’m sure there are going to be times in the months ahead when you’re staying up late doing your homework or cramming for a test, or you’re dragging yourself out of bed on a rainy morning and you’re thinking, oh, boy, I wish maybe it was a snow day. (Laughter.)

But let me tell you, what you’re doing is worth it. There is nothing more important than what you’re doing right now. Nothing is going to have as great an impact on your success in life as your education, how you’re doing in school. More and more, the kinds of opportunities that are open to you are going to be determined by how far you go in school. The farther you go in school, the farther you’re going to go in life. And at a time when other countries are competing with us like never before, when students around the world in Beijing, China, or Bangalore, India, are working harder than ever, and doing better than ever, your success in school is not just going to determine your success, it’s going to determine America’s success in the 21st century. So you’ve got an obligation to yourselves, and America has an obligation to you, to make sure you’re getting the best education possible. And making sure you get that kind of education is going to take all of us working hard and all of us working hand in hand. It takes all of us in government -- from the governor to the mayor to the superintendent to the President -- all of us doing our part to prepare our students, all of them, for success in the classroom and in college and in a career. It’s going to take an outstanding principal, like Principal Neff, and outstanding teachers like the ones you have here at Masterman -- teachers who are going above and beyond the call of duty for their students. And it’s going to take parents who are committed to your education.

Now, that’s what we have to do for you. That’s our responsibility. That’s our job. But you’ve got a job, too. You’ve got to show up to school on time. You’ve got to pay attention in your class. You’ve got to do your homework. You’ve got to study for exams. You’ve got to stay out of trouble. You’ve got to instill a sense of excellence in everything that you do. That kind of discipline, that kind of drive, that kind of hard work, is absolutely essential for success. And I can speak from experience here because unlike Kelly, I can’t say I always had this discipline. See, I can tell she was always disciplined. I wasn’t always disciplined. I wasn’t always the best student when I was younger. I made my share of mistakes. I still remember a conversation I had with my mother in high school. I was kind of a goof-off. And I was about the age of some of the folks here. And my grades were slipping. I hadn’t started my college applications. I was acting, as my mother put it, sort of casual about my future. I was doing good enough. I was smart enough that I could kind of get by. But I wasn’t really applying myself. And so I suspect this is a conversation that will sound familiar to some students and some parents here today. She decided to sit me down and said I had to change my attitude. My attitude was what I imagine every teenager’s attitude is when your parents have a conversation with you like that. I was like, you know, I don’t need to hear all this. I’m doing okay, I’m not flunking out. So I started to say that, and she just cut me right off. She said, you can’t just sit around waiting for luck to see you through. She said, you can get into any school you want in the country if you just put in a little bit of effort. She gave me a hard look and she said, you remember what that’s like? Effort? (Laughter.) Some of you have had that conversation. (Laughter.) And it was pretty jolting hearing my mother say that. But eventually her words had the intended effect, because I got serious about my studies. And I started to make an effort in everything that I did. And I began to see my grades and my prospects improve. And I know that if hard work could make the difference for me, then it can make a difference for all of you. And I know that there may be some people who are skeptical about that. Sometimes you may wonder if some people just aren’t better at certain things. You know, well, I’m not good at math or I’m just not really interested in my science classes. And it is true that we each have our own gifts, we each have our own talents that we have to discover and nurture. Not everybody is going to catch on in certain subjects as easily as others. But just because you’re not the best at something today doesn’t mean you can’t be tomorrow. Even if you don’t think of yourself as a math person or a science person, you can still excel in those subjects if you’re willing to make the effort. And you may find out you have talents you never dreamed of. Because one of the things I’ve discovered is excelling -- whether it’s in school or in life -- isn’t mainly about being smarter than everybody else. That’s not really the secret to success. It’s about working harder than everybody else. So don’t avoid new challenges -- seek them out, step out of your comfort zone, don’t be afraid to ask for help. Your teachers and family are there to guide you. They want to know if you’re not catching on to something because they know that if you keep on working at it, you’re going to catch on. Don’t feel discouraged; don’t give up if you don’t succeed at something the first time. Try again, and learn from your mistakes. Don’t feel threatened if your friends are doing well; be proud of them, and see what lessons you can draw from what they’re doing right. Now, I’m sort of preaching to the choir here because I know that’s the kind of culture of excellence that you promote at Masterman. But I’m not just speaking to all of you, I’m speaking to kids all across the country. And I want them to all here that same message: That’s the kind of excellence we’ve got to promote in all of America’s schools.

That’s one of the reasons why I’m announcing our second Commencement Challenge. Some of you may have heard of this. If your school is the winner, if you show us how teachers and students and parents are all working together to prepare your kids and your school for college and a career, if you show us how you’re giving back to your community and your country, then I will congratulate you in person by speaking at your commencement. Last year I was in Michigan at Kalamazoo and had just a wonderful time. Although I got to admit, their graduating class was about 700 kids and my hands were really sore at the end of it because I was shaking all of them. (Laughter.) But the truth is, an education is about more than getting into a good college. It’s about more than getting a good job when you graduate. It’s about giving each and every one of us the chance to fulfill our promise, and to be the best version of ourselves we can be. And part of that means treating others the way we want to be treated -- with kindness and respect. So that’s something else that I want to communicate to students not just here at Masterman but all across the country. Sometimes kids can be mean to other kids. Let’s face it. We don’t always treat each other with respect and kindness. That’s true for adults as well, by the way.

And sometimes that’s especially true in middle school or high school, because being a teenager isn’t easy. It’s a time when you’re wrestling with a lot of things. When I was in my teens, I was wrestling with all sorts of questions about who I was. I had a white mother and a black father, and my father wasn’t around; he had left when I was two. And so there were all kinds of issues that I was dealing with. Some of you may be working through your own questions right now and coming to terms with what makes you different. And I know that figuring out all of that can be even more difficult when you’ve got bullies in a class who try to use those differences to pick on you or poke fun at you, to make you feel bad about yourself. And in some places, the problem is even more serious. There are neighborhoods in my hometown of Chicago, and there are neighborhoods right here in Philadelphia where kids are doing each other serious harm.

So, what I want to say to every kid, every young person -- what I want all of you -- if you take away one thing from my speech, I want you to take away the notion that life is precious, and part of what makes it so wonderful is its diversity, that all of us are different. And we shouldn’t be embarrassed by the things that make us different. We should be proud of them, because it’s the thing that makes us different that makes us who we are, that makes us unique. And the strength and character of this country has always come from our ability to recognize -- no matter who we are, no matter where we come from, no matter what we look like, no matter what abilities we have -- to recognize ourselves in each other.

I was reminded of that idea the other day when I read a letter from Tamerria Robinson. She’s a 12-year-old girl in Georgia. And she told me about how hard she works and about all the community service she does with her brother. And she wrote, “I try to achieve my dreams and help others do the same.” “That,” she said, “is how the world should work.” That’s a pretty good motto. I work hard to achieve my goals and then I try to help others to achieve their goals.

And I agree with Tamerria. That’s how the world should work. But it’s only going to work that way if all of you get in good habits while you’re in school. So, yes, each of us need to work hard. We all have to take responsibilities for our own education. We need to take responsibility for our own lives. But what makes us who we are is that here, in this country, in the United States of America, we don’t just reach for our own dreams, we try to help others do the same. This is a country that gives all its daughters and all of its sons a fair chance, a chance to make the most of their lives and fulfill their God-given potential. And I’m absolutely confident that if all of our students -- here at Masterman and across this country -- keep doing their part, if you guys work hard and you’re focused on your education, you keep fighting for your dreams and then you help each other reach each other’s dreams, then you’re not only going to succeed this year, you’re going to succeed for the rest of your lives. And that means America will succeed in the 21st century.

So my main message to all of you here today: I couldn’t be prouder of you. Keep it up. All of you I know are going to do great things in the future. And maybe some time in the 21st century, it’s going to be one of you that’s standing up here speaking to a group of kids as President of the United States. Thank you. God bless you, and God bless the United States of America. Thank you. (Applause.) END 1:23 P.M. EDT

第3篇：入职怎么跟同事自我介绍

提到自我介绍，大家必然非常熟悉，因为几乎每一个人在成长过程中都会遇到各种各样需要进行自我介绍的场合，下面文库小编为你带来入职怎么跟同事自我介绍的内容，希望你们喜欢。

关于入职怎么跟同事自我介绍篇一

各位领导，各位同事：

大家好!

我叫XXX，来自XX，我性格开朗、为人正直、容易与人相处;平时爱好打篮球、爬山和跑步。

我非常高兴也非常荣幸的加入到XX这个大家庭中来，这里不仅为我提供了一个成长锻炼、展示自我的良好平台，也让我有机会认识更多的新同事、新朋友。借此，我非常感谢各位领导，谢谢您们能给我一次这么好的机会。

我初来乍到，还有许多方方面面的知识需要向大家学习，还望在以后的工作中大家能够多多指教!　我相信，通过我们彼此之间的相互了解和认识，我们不但会成为事业上齐头并进一起奋斗的战友，更会成为人生中志同道合、荣辱与共的朋友。

最后，我愿能和大家一道为我们共同的事业而努力奋斗!谢谢大家!

关于入职怎么跟同事自我介绍篇二

各位领导，各位同事：

大家好!(鞠躬)

我叫看准网，来自湖南，我性格开朗、为人正直、容易与人相处;平时爱好打篮球、爬山和跑步。

我非常高兴也非常荣幸的加入到XX这个大家庭中来，这里不仅为我提供了一个成长锻炼、展示自我的良好平台，也让我有机会认识更多的新同事、新朋友。借此，我非常感谢各位领导，谢谢您们能给我一次这么好的机会。(鞠躬)

我初来乍到，还有许多方方面面的知识需要向大家学习，还望在以后的工作中大家能够多多指教!

我相信，通过我们彼此之间的相互了解和认识，我们不但会成为事业上齐头并进一起奋斗的战友，更会成为人生中志同道合、荣辱与共的朋友。

最后，我愿能和大家一道为我们共同的事业而努力奋斗!

谢谢大家!(鞠躬)

关于入职怎么跟同事自我介绍篇三

我来到洛弛虽然只有一个月的时间，但在这短短的一个月里，却让我感到公司领导对工作的精益求精，不断创新，对员工的无微不至------让我感到加入洛弛是幸运的。能成为公司的一员，我感到无比自豪，相信这种自豪感将使我更有激情的投入到工作中。

作为一名进入一个全新工作环境的新员工来说，尽管在过去的工作中积累了一定的工作经验，但刚进入公司，难免还是有点压力。为了能让自己尽早进入工作状态和适应工作环境，有问题及时请教同事，积极学习工作所需要的各项专业知识，努力提高自己的业务水平。这段时间我学到了很多知识，自己的技术水平也得到了很大提高，过得非常充实和快乐，再累也是值得的!在这里，我要特别感谢在这段时间帮助过我的领导和同事，正是因为有了他们无微不至的关怀和不厌其烦的帮助，才使我得于尽早从那种紧张情绪中解放出来，使我尽快地适应了环境，全情地投入了工作!因为正如我了解的那样，洛弛是关心自己的每一个员工，给每一个员工足够的空间展现自己!

在洛弛，我喜欢业务员这个工作岗位，因为这个岗位具有很高的挑战性，能让我把十多年的知识学以致用，并能很好的发挥我制定计划、处理问题等方面的能力，正因为对工作的喜欢，使我能全情投入到工作中去。我知道惟有积极的行动才能带来丰硕的成果。为了做好销售这项工作，我正用心的做着领导交给我的每一项任务。

对于我来说，洛弛是一个区别于以往的新环境，所接触的人和事物一切都是新的。作为新员工，我会去主动了解、适应环境，同时也要将自己优越的方面展现给公司，在充分信任和合作的基础上会建立良好的人际关系。除此之外，我还要时刻保持高昂的学习激情，不断地补充知识，提高技能，以适应公司发展。在工作中我可能会有迷惑和压力，但是我相信只要能端正心态、有十足的信心勇敢地走下去，就一定会取得成功。

社会在发展，信息在增长，挑战也在加剧。我不仅要发挥自身的优势，更要通过学习他人的经验，来提高自身的素质。洛弛公司的发展目标是宏伟而长远的，公司的发展就是我们每个人的发展，我相信我有能力把握机遇，与洛弛一起迎接挑战!

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